Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | March 24, 2016

A Testimony

I would like to share my testimony, or at least, where I’m at right now. I belong to the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. I believe it to be the most correct of any Church on the Earth. I believe Jesus Christ leads this church through a modern day prophet, President Thomas S. Monson. I believe Jesus Christ is our Saviour and that he suffered and died for everyone so that we could live in perfect happiness someday with our Heavenly Father, if we so choose. I believe we have our agency and that God has given us that gift so we can choose for ourselves whether to follow Him or not. I believe God loves everyone. I believe The Book of Mormon is another testament of Jesus Christ, as the Bible is a testament of Jesus Christ. I believe Joseph Smith was called by God to restore the fullness of the Gospel to the Earth and that he translated the Book of Mormon by the gift and power of God. I know that God answers prayers. He has answered my prayers many times and I have seen Him answer the prayers of others.

After 32 years of living, I know that I don’t know many things. I do know that I love my kids. I want the best for them. I believe that I have a Father in Heaven who loves me more than I love my kids and who wants the best for me. I know that my life is better when I follow God and keep His commandments. I hope I can teach my kids to love God and rely on His help through this difficult life, because it makes life easier and happier. I believe there is a God who loves us and wants us to have joy. May God bless us everyone and may we find joy this Easter season and life. I leave these thoughts with you in the name of Jesus Christ, Amen.

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | October 28, 2014

“Loving Others & Living With Differences” and “Lord, Is It I?”

In the Pre-Nursery Sunday School class this week our teacher asked us if we wanted to share any insights from General Conference (a big LDS meeting where Prophets, Apostles and General Authorities give excellent counsel to us). Someone mentioned loving Elder Oaks’ talk about loving others and living in the world that we live in, with so many differing viewpoints and differences of opinions. Someone also mentioned Elder Uchtdorf’s talk, “Lord, Is It I?” Saturday night on our drive home from our family road trip, my dad played Elder Uchtdorf’s talk for us in the car, so that one was pretty fresh in my mind. I didn’t however remember everything about Elder Oaks talk, so I decided to read that this morning for my scripture study.

What an amazing talk! So to the point and helpful. He talks about the importance of loving others as Jesus loved us, which means loving everyone in spite of differences. He talks about the importance of avoiding contention as well as the appropriate places for teaching truths. “In dedicated spaces, like temples, houses of worship, and our own homes, we should teach the truth and the commandments plainly and thoroughly as we understand them from the plan of salvation revealed in the restored gospel.” Another line from his talk that I love was, “though we may disagree, we should not be disagreeable.” He reminds us of the Saviour’s Golden rule: “whatsoever ye would that men should do to you, do ye even so to them (Matt 7:12).”

As I was reading this talk, I began to think, “So and So really needs to read this talk. This talk is exactly for them. Oh and this person needs to read this talk too. How better their lives would be if they heeded Elder Oaks’ counsel.” And then I remembered Elder Uchtdorf’s talk, “Lord, Is It I?” . . . Ooops.


The jist of Elder Ucthdorf’s talk reminds us that the Saviour’s apostles did not point fingers when he told them that one of them would betray him. They responded, “Lord, is it I?” They weren’t saying, “Oh, that must be Peter because he is so hot headed,” or “Oh that must be Judas because he seems a bit dodgy.” They simply asked, “Lord, is it I?” Elder Uchtdorf reminds us that we need to stop pointing fingers and ask “Lord, is it I?”

Well, as I was mentally pointing fingers this morning, I realized that I needed to ask, “Lord, is it I?” And amazingly enough, a recent conversation came to mind that I had with someone about something that I feel strongly about. It occurred to me that I might not have shown the love in my statements that the Saviour would have. I did not condemn the other person but I also may have switched to offensive mode in my defensive position, which is not something the Saviour would have me do. Perhaps it is I who will have to work on putting Elder Oaks’ talk into practice.

I also recalled some dealings with people who I want to read Elder Oaks’ talk. I have a tendency to lose patience with those who struggle with “living with differences.” My lack of patience for their struggles is also less-than-Christlike. I now have some behaviours to improve in my pursuit to be more Christlike and to follow the prophets and apostles. And that is what I learned this morning.

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | February 24, 2014

Reflections of 30

30 things I’ve done before today (my 30th birthday):

1) Graduated with my Bachelor of Arts from BYU
2) Traveled to Western Europe (visited England, Ireland, France, Spain, Italy, Austria, Switzerland, Germany, Luxemborg, The Netherlands and the Isle of Mann)
3) Served an 18 month mission in England for my church

England mission
4) worked in a job that had been my focus of study in college for two years
5) dated a handsome man from Texas for a year and a half
6) got sealed to that handsome Texan in the San Antonio, TX temple

another temple shot
7) honeymooned in Costa Rica

8) went white water rafting, zip lining and waterfall repelling in Costa Rica and lived to tell the tales
9) ran two Corona del Mar 5Ks (one before I was married and one after having a baby)
10) lost 100lbs on Weight Watchers (50lbs before I was married, 40lbs after David’s birth and 10lbs since Derek’s birth)
11) gave birth to David William Garcia on Jan 1, 2012

12) gave natural birth to Derek James Garcia on Nov 10, 2013

13) visited the east coast from New Hampshire to North Carolina
14) took a cross country road trip with my handsome husband and 18 month old while 5 months pregnant

15) lived in California, Utah and North Carolina
16) visited Japan as an exchange student for ten days (when I was 13)
17) rewrote the lyrics to a number of Disney songs and a few other classics and performed them for school projects and zone presentations or talent shows
18) visited Mexico twice
19) visited Canada (the Totem Pole, Beautiful British Colombia side)
20) memorized The Very Hungry Caterpillar and read at least 100 books to my two year old
21) changed thousands of diapers
22) read and sung my two year old to sleep

photo (7)

23) read The Book of Mormon more times than I’ve read the Harry Potter series
24) read The Old Testament cover to cover (no simple task), along with The New Testament, The Doctrine and Covenants and The Pearl of Great Price
25) breast fed my two sons (a blessing and struggle at times)
26) made a bus for my son’s ABC play group out of cardboard moving boxes, a great deal of yellow duct tape and labor assistance from my handsome husband

27) decorated my first home with artwork I created

28) learned to cook/continue to learn and have cooked hundreds of meals for my family
29) washed, folded and put away thousands of clothes (predicting #s will reach millions before my time is done)
30) successfully completed my mom’s potty training (as I begin to contemplate my son’s potty training, I begin to realize just how impressive this really is)

As I reflect, I discover that I am quite content with how I have spent my time so far. Now to make the next 30 years even better!


Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | August 27, 2013

Only the good die young

My heart is heavy. My cousin-in-law’s husband passed away last week. He was a good man. He had a wife and son who is just a few months older than my son. He was a good husband and father. I wish instead of one of the good ones, it could have been one of the crappy, deadbeat dads who cheat and leave their wives and abandon their kids. It seems like there are an endless supply of those, why not let one of them get some random disease that kills them within a month?

One thought comes to me as I think of this horrible situation. There was a people who lived in ancient times on the American continent. They had been a ferocious and blood thirsty lot until they turned to The Lord and changed their evil ways. They refused to ever again take up their weapons of war, even to defend their own lives.

One day, some of their wicked brethren decided to fight them. The changed people refused to defend themselves and prayed to God as their brethren fell upon them. Many of them died at the hands of their brethren, but their brethren were so ashamed of the murders they committed that many of them repented and turned their hearts towards God. The number of people who joined The Lord that day were more than those who had lost their lives. Furthermore, those who had died had died pure in heart and were taken home to that God who gave them life.

“And it came to pass that the people of God were joined that day by more than the number who had been slain; and those who had been slain were righteous people, therefore we have no reason to doubt but what they were saved.”
(Book of Mormon, Alma 24:26)

I didn’t know my cousin-in-law that well, but on the times when we hung out, he always seemed like a great husband and father. I am sure that he will be well received by that God who gave him life and who died for all of us that we might live again.

“Now, concerning the state of the soul between death and the resurrection—Behold, it has been made known unto me by an angel, that the spirits of all men, as soon as they are departed from this mortal body, . . . are taken home to that God who gave them life.

And then shall it come to pass, that the spirits of those who are righteous are received into a state of happiness, which is called paradise, a state of rest, a state of peace, where they shall rest from all their troubles and from all care, and sorrow.”
(Book of Mormon, Alma 40: 11-12)

Perhaps the deadbeat dads will turn their lives around given more time on this earth, or they at least need that time so that when they are judged they won’t be able to say that if they had more time they would have changed.

My tears, thoughts and prayers are with this good one’s beautiful wife and their beautiful son. May that God who suffered for us all comfort them at this horrible time.

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | August 18, 2013

Oh the cleverness of me!


I feel like a genius! I had a problem. There was a large blank wall in my home. I needed something to clear up that situation, but my husband and I just moved to North Carolina for him to go to the MBA program at Duke. I’m staying home with our 19-month-old, which means we have no money to spend on expensive wall decor.

So, clever me, decided to make something. But what to make? That was the question. I had a clever friend in Southern California who put a bunch of sticks together in a circle and made a really cool wall art piece. On my walks/jogs around the neighborhood here, I have noticed a great many sticks on the ground. (Durham is covered in trees, so it is not surprising that there would be lots of sticks on the ground.)  I decided to look online and see if Google had any ideas for stick wall art.

Pinterest had some etsy pieces that looked rather cool, as well as something that I might be able to duplicate, so I decided to give it a try. I started collecting sticks at a park day my women’s church group had. One of the little boys had found this awesome stick that he was playing with. I waited patiently until he was done playing and then snatched up the beautiful stick. The next morning on my jog I picked up a bunch of sticks (I jog slower than a snail’s pace, so stopping to pick up sticks really doesn’t affect my pace). That night after little David went to sleep I dragged out my sticks and started arranging.  Conveniently enough our backyard has a bunch of trees and sticks right behind it, so when I realized I needed a few more sticks, I just went out and grabbed some.

I used a pocket knife to saw one of the sticks into quarters for my fence post. After nailing the fence together and some of the “tree trunks” and “branches,” David came and helped with a couple more of the “trunks.” Not all of the “branches” seemed like they would survive a nail and hammer, so I attached them with twisty ties. I stripped the plastic off the twisty ties to make them less noticeable. I also read something about a finisher or sealer, so I went to Lowe’s and picked up a spray wood finisher/sealer thing that I used after my sticks had been assembled. I also decided to add a couple of little fake cardinals because I saw a cardinal in our backyard the other day.


I ended up nailing the fence to the wall as well as one of the tree branches. I think it will stay up and be quite decorative for the next two years. It is not sturdy (how the Little Pig who built his house of sticks managed to get them to all stay together long enough to call it a house is a mystery to me), but I made it and think it is fabulous! Not perfect, but fabulous.

I also decided to make a second bit of stick art for our bathroom, which has a woodsy theme going on. Another something I saw when looking up stick art. I rather like the way this one turned out as well. David had to help me mount it on the wall, and it too will not survive a move or excessive huffing and puffing, but I’m hoping I will also enjoy it for the next two years.

Feel free to admire and adore the craftiness and cleverness of me! I know I do. Cheers.

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | June 16, 2013


Happy Father’s Day! I have been spoiled when it comes to Fathers. I was raised by a humble and righteous dad, who was the best dad in the world. I am married to a man who has an awesome dad. My sister has a wonderful husband who is an awesome uncle. I am married to the most amazing dad and husband ever.

My dad:
I remember going to ward choir practice with my dad when my sister and I were in primary. I remember going to chapel cleanup and seeing my dad anxious to clean and be helpful. My dad was a great example of always helping. He would always pick up little bits of trash if he saw it around the church. I now feel guilty if I don’t do the same. I am grateful that my dad honored his priesthood. He gave us blessings at the beginning of the school year and at other times when we needed them.Grandpa

My dad and I went on hikes growing up. I loved getting up early on a Saturday morning to go on a hike with my dad. He helped us with our math and science homework. He read me stories before I went to sleep. He coached my soccer team and always came to my water polo games-even though I was just an alternate player that maybe got to play the last two minutes of the game. He came to see all of my performances in various high school musicals.

What made my dad great? He was there and he was hands-on. He wasn’t afraid of dirty diapers. My mom was the disciplinarian in our family-she was the one with the vocal chords, but my dad had a much more effective way of punishing us. My dad had a disappointed look that would crush anyone. My sister and I avoided that look. Having mom yell at us was way more tolerable than seeing that look on my dad’s face.

My dad always tells us how much he loves us. Every night before going to bed he would give us a Butterfly, butterfly, Eskimo, lipper and I love you. Dad was always there to comfort us when we were scared. If there was a dinosaur outside our window in the middle of the night, a hug from dad and sometimes a story would make it go away. Yup, I was spoiled to have such an amazing dad.

My husband’s dad:
Papa GarciaHere’s a dad who I have only known for a few years now, but who has made a significant difference in my life. On one of my first dates with David he told me about how his dad could fix anything and loved projects. He taught his sons the value of hard work by having them do hard things like build trenches in the middle of a Texas Summer. I remember David’s mom telling how Dale made it possible for them to move back to her Texas home by fixing their broken family car with spare parts found at various junk yards.

Papa Garcia is a brilliant engineer who has always worked very hard so his wife could be the stay-at-home mom she wanted to be. (His wife is amazing and is a mini-Hercules, but this isn’t the blog post to go into that.) He has raised sons who know the value of and who look for work.

He also taught his sons the importance of being active in church and serving. The Garcia boys could always be counted on to stack and put away chairs after an event (this coincidentally was why I pursued my husband-he always stacked chairs after church events, something my dad always did too). And unless you were on your deathbed, you were going to church. Something I’m grateful that he instilled in my husband. I’m grateful my husband was also spoiled to have such a great dad.

My Brother-in-law:
Uncle MikeMike is a surgical technician at Hoag hospital for the labor and delivery ward. He can do infant CPR, which makes him one of the few people I feel fully confident in leaving my son with. He’s also not afraid of crying babies or poopy diapers. He likes crying babies-it means they are okay! He has changed at least one of my son’s poopy diapers-a task that in my book makes him great. He’ll watch Little David on his downtime so I can go to a doctor’s appointment without having to entertain Little David during the visit. When he is needed, Mike is there. And Little David loves his Uncle Mike. He lights up when Uncle Mike is around.

Also, he makes my sister (who is in fact Wonder Woman) an even better person. I remember in high school when they were dating, Chrissy and I were fighting about some little thing and after I had left the room, Mike told my sister to not fight with me because I was her sister-oddly enough I think Chrissy and I fought less after that.

Mike is the health nut in our family and he has inspired my sister to take up tennis again, which she now plays 3-4 times a week. She even started swimming again. I’m grateful for a health nut in the family. We all like to eat, but overeating has serious consequences which I hope to avoid by taking a few notes out of my brother-in-law’s health book.

Most importantly, he makes my sister happy. Life hasn’t followed the path that they had planned on, but despite challenges and disappointments, after 11 years of marriage, my sister is still very happily married to her best friend. I’m very grateful that my sister is married to such a great dad.

My Husband:
the DavidsThis one could go on forever, but I will see what I can do to condense. What an amazing dad he is. He goes to church and listens to lessons and conference talks on how to be a better husband and father and then implements various suggestions. A little over a month ago he added scriptures, prayer and good night hymns to Little David’s bedtime routine-something that may sound like a no-brainer, but when you are learning how to take care of a mini-human, implementing anything aside from sleeping, pooping and eating is really hard.

He takes turns taking Little David to nursery, sacrificing two hours of Sunday school and Priesthood lessons to do so. He also takes turns  changing dirty diapers, something I am eternally grateful for. And Big David is the one who really has helped get Baby David’s bedtime routine in place. He helped establish a night time bath and bottle, as well as the scriptures, prayer and hymns.

Little David is always so happy to see his daddy because his daddy is always overjoyed to see him. They love to go on walks and adventures together in the evenings (which gives mommy a very much appreciated break.) To my jealous delight Little David laughs the hardest when he is playing with Daddy. I love when David comes home from work and peals of laughter can be heard from the next room where the Davids are playing.

I am a worrier and Big David really works hard so I don’t have to worry as much. He has worked very hard for the past 2.5 years that we’ve been married and made it possible for me to be a housewife and a stay-at-home mom. He has gotten life insurance in order so that if anything happened to him, Baby David and I would still be taken care of. He helps us budget so that we stay on top of the finances. How wonderful it is not to have to worry about money as much, because Big David figures it out and lets me know my budget for various things. Oh how I love this man!
I am so eternally grateful that I married the most wonderful man ever. We are so blessed to have great brothers and to have been raised by amazing fathers. (I decided not to make this blog post a long novel. I only talked about my sister’s husband, but Big David has 4 awesome brothers as well. Jon is an awesome husband and father to two of the cutest little girls in existence. Stephen, Jacob and Brandon are all wonderful uncles and great guys.) I am so grateful for great men for my son to be surrounded and influenced by. To all the great dads out there, whether you currently have kids or not, THANK YOU! And Happy Father’s Day!

Daddy David

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | February 11, 2013

Come, Come Ye Saints

“Come, come ye Saints, no toil nor labor fear; but with joy wend your way.
Though hard to you this journey may appear, Grace shall be as your day.
‘Tis better far for us to strive our useless cares from us to drive;
Do this, and joy your hearts will swell- All is well! All is well!

Why should we mourn or think or lot is hard? ‘Tis not so; all is right.
Why should we think to earn a great reward if we now shun the fight?
Gird up your loins; fresh courage take. Our God will never us forsake;
And soon we’ll have this tale to tell- All is well! All is well!”
-William Clayton

I’ve kind of strongly disliked this song since my days at Brigham Young University. Every hour on the hour the bell tower chimes, “Come, come ye Saints.” Just not that big of a fan, until today.

Today at the end of a great relief society lesson about motivation and making choices, we sang this song. This song was what I needed this week and possibly just what I’ve been needing for a bit.

My mom had knee replacement surgery on January 9th. “No toil nor labor fear.” Baby David and I have been spending our week days out in Moreno Valley helping her. It has been hard. I feel weighed down. I have been stressed and grumpy. My beloved husband has been finishing applications and now preparing for interviews for business school. It is very exciting and stressful. It has been a busy and rough time. “Why should we mourn or think or lot is hard?”

Today this song hit me. It was that feeling that Heavenly Father is speaking directly to you. Sometimes it is through hearing another person’s testimony or reading a scripture. I have discovered that for me, I feel his loving embrace a great deal through music-perhaps because that is the one time I am paying close enough attention. Either way, I felt like this song was gently and firmly telling me to “gird up my loins, fresh courage take. Our God will never us forsake.” And soon I, too, will have this tale to tell- All is well! All is well!

Here is my favorite version of “Come, Come Ye Saints.” The music is only on the first two minutes of the clip.

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | February 2, 2013


Last night I was telling my husband that we have a very precocious son. At only 13 months he is already throwing “terrible two” tantrums. My husband opened his mouth and then quickly closed it-an ominous sign.

“No idea.”-him
“No, really…”-me
“Oh dear. I only hate you because it is true. Oops.”-me


“I was going to warn us about what kind of behavior we model.”-him

More laughter.

I’m sure it wouldn’t be so bad if I hadn’t just thrown a tantrum on Monday morning. I was having a fight with a new carseat seat belt and losing. I would like to apologize to the neighbors I scared as I was raging at the seat. Most tragically my son was in the carseat at the time watching Mommy’s tantrum. And yet I complained about him throwing a tantrum when he couldn’t get the door open at GrandMumzie’s physical therapy appointment. I wonder where he learned it from. I repeat, “Oops!”

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | December 18, 2012

Bah, Humbug – Christmas Rant

Bah humbug! Once again I am feeling link a grinch. I guess I am more of a Fall person. I love pumpkins and the weather getting cold. I love the brightly colored leaves. Christmas time is another story. Everything starts dying. I like the lights. I like the decorations. Thanks to my mom’s obsession with nativities, I have a love for creches. I enjoy the Christmas music for a small season. I do get sick of hearing the same songs on the Christmas station after a short while and there are a few Christmas songs that I never enjoy hearing, “Rocking around the Christmas tree,” and “Jingle Bell Rock,” are a few on the list.

Is it the commercialism about Christmas that I hate? I don’t think so. I think the problem is that I am a perfectionist and inclusionist. I like to include everyone. I hated being excluded from things as a child, so given the opportunity, I would love to give everyone the perfect gift. But that is not possible. So, I would like to get a few people the perfect gift. That is also not possible. I don’t know what the  perfect gift is, and if I find the perfect gift for one person, what about the others? What do I get them? Do I just not get anyone anything? I hate that. But I also hate leaving people out. Bah, Humbug!

I guess, despite the fact that Christmas is a rubbish time on the mission, I miss Christmases on my mission. I miss not worrying about Christmas gifts. Sure, maybe you would try to get your companion a little something, but that was rather hard since the only time you weren’t with your companion was when you were showering or in the bathroom. I liked the focus being on the Saviour. I struggle with that now. I have suitcases to pack, presents to buy or not buy and what about the fact that it is my first born child’s first Christmas?!

He is almost one. What do I do? Am I supposed to get him something for each of the Christmases we will have? Our Texas Christmas, our Moreno Valley Christmas and our own personal Christmas? I don’t see packing him something in the suitcase just to bring it home-but can I really not bring something for him to open from his parents on Christmas day? So many decisions! I repeat, Bah, Humbug!

Comments along the lines of “Don’t get me anything,” will be utterly useless. I feel like that is a plea to get that person the perfect gift and if I can’t figure out what it is, then clearly I am slacking. And let’s face it, I like presents. I guess why I have such a hard time with this is that I’m picky about presents. I like ones that thought has gone into, but I also don’t like ones that are useless. My mother-in-law got me a lovely Christmas with the Prophets book last year or the year before that. I loved it! I like to read and it was really cool. My husband got me a beautiful salad bowl for our first Christmas. It was amazing and something that we will have and use forever. I want to give gifts like that. I want to give things that people will cherish and enjoy. But figuring out the perfect gift for anyone, let alone everyone, is really hard.

Will Christmas ever be fun again? I liked it when Santa used to come to my house. I think that is because I didn’t have to worry too much about getting the perfect gift for everyone else. When I am working on helping Santa know the perfect gift for Little David and his siblings, will I feel less stressed? Maybe there will be more joy involved and that will outweigh the stress.

And all this complaining is pretty dang selfish. I am so blessed. I have the most beautiful baby boy and the most wonderful husband. I have amazing relatives on all sides. I’m going to get to celebrate Christmas three times, not just once. I have a wonderful life. Maybe I just need to watch “It’s a Wonderful Life.” That is a good one for appreciating Christmas. I need to fold laundry and pack now, but maybe later. “After all, tomorrow is another day.”

Posted by: Emily Schmutz Garcia | September 10, 2012

Political Opinion

Ahhh…Election years. What a wonderful time to let your true colors show!.. on Facebook, that is. Many friends whose opinions you may have never guessed might be posting strongly worded statements in favor of this candidate or opposing the other candidate. I think originally I was going to lament the whole process and how sad it is that once every four years we become a very divided country. On the other hand, the two-party system has been keeping America strong for …2012-1776=…236 years…give or take a few. Two head strong parties that balance each other out is not a bad system. I think that both parties have good points. I also think that in election years both parties have a tendency to over dramatize the opinions of their opponents. I have very dear friends and family on both sides of the elections. In all things, if you want to learn about what a particular party believes, ask a member of that party, not the opposing party.

Me, personally, I would like Mitt Romney to win. I don’t think that the world will come to a close or that the second coming will come any sooner if President Obama remains in office for four more years. I’m conservative. I believe that the way to encourage businesses to hire more employees and thus create more jobs is not to increase their taxes as they gain more success. I think that businesses are about many things but in order to stay in business they have to make money. If hiring more employees is going to cost them more money-why would they? If, on the other hand, hiring more employees allows them to continue to grow and become more successful, why wouldn’t they? I’m not saying big businesses shouldn’t pay taxes, just not a greater proportion of taxes than any other business.

I am also quite opposed to socialized medicine. I lived in England for eighteen months and saw too many people who could only get medical care if they could pay ridiculous prices for the private hospitals and physicians. The universal health care that was offered didn’t cut it. There weren’t enough doctors and nurses in the hospitals. It was not effective. I’m not saying that medical insurance is perfect or that how things are the way they are now is ideal either. However, I do believe that socialized/universal health care will not be an improvement.

Other issues that I have an opinion on:

The definition of marriage-judging from everything else you’ve read so far, you might have a guess on where I stand. I support the traditional definition of marriage. I believe that the family unit is ordained by God and that men and women have divine roles in it. I believe that God created men and women differently, and that the process of creating life is sacred. I believe children have a right to be raised by a loving mother and father. I understand that this is not always the case, but I believe this is the ideal that should be the goal.

Abortion-I’m against it. Please do not say, “it is a woman’s body, let her choose.” False! It is a baby and a mom and a dad. Third trimester abortions are inexcusable and should be legislated against. In extreme cases, such as rape, or when the mother’s life is in danger, families should consult within the first two trimesters. Unwanted pregnancies resulting from unprotected sex from two willing participants should be raised by the willing participants when possible and when not by adoptive parents (if you are worried about there not being enough of those, just go to an adoption agency and check out the list of waiting/hopeful parents).

Immigration-Ahhh! We are a country of immigrants. Yes we are, but that doesn’t mean that we have an open immigration policy. If we are going to provide health care and education to residents of this country we need to be able to keep records. In order to do that we have immigration policies and numbers. Education and health care cost money. I have relatives who do not have insurance and are not millionaires, and yet they manage to keep their kids healthy and taken care of, by paying out of pocket health expenses. It is possible for them, it is possible for others, particularly those who are visiting this country. My parents immigrated my sister here legally. Was it a process? Yes. Did they go through it? Yes. It was possible for them, it must be possible for others as well. Does that mean I think any illegal immigrant should be chucked back to their own country? Nope, but I do believe that without laws and regulations, we will not be able to support the residents of the U.S. in basic needs like education and health care. (Not saying that either should be free, just that they won’t even be options if there is not order.)

There are other issues but these are the ones I can think of currently with my “mommy-brain.”


I am conservative. Why? Because it makes sense to me. I agree with the arguments put forth by conservatives more often than I agree with arguments put forth by liberals. I think that both parties make great points. I dislike when either party or its affiliates generalize about the opposing party. So election years become a bit of a love/hate issue with me. I love seeing people excited about politics. I hate people generalizing and saying horrible untruths about others. I’m grateful for a two-party system that provides balance. The end.

P.S. Don’t forget to vote in November, whatever your political opinions may be!

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